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College Admissions Scam or Nah?

College Admissions Scam. Scandal? Scam? Ugh?! It's a hashtag and Felicity Huffman and Aunt Becky's face are plastered all over everywhere. You know what's not plastered? Their damn mugshots because it's been decided that those won't be released publicly . And where the fuck is William H. Macy's face ? He's Huffman's husband, and therefore, assumably, the father of the kids they were bribing folks to get into college. But nevermind that this mom and this mom 's shots were everywhere--BECAUSE THEY WENT TO JAIL for a similar thing. Goodness, their cases and harsh as fuck sentences seem different in the light of March 2019. Let's see what kind of time ANY of these 50 people get for federal FELONY crimes and RICO violations. My guess: NONE But here's the thing: is this really a scam though? Or is this just normal, business as usual run through to its fallacious, slippery slope end? Is anyone really surprised? Because let's be hone

Cooking, Parenting, and Gendered Expectations

While I was fixing my breakfast this morning, I was flooded with thoughts from those shitty posts we've seen all over social media about how modern women don't know how to cook, or "to catch a good man, we need to cook a good meal," or "real women cook real meals, "etc. I've been cooking for myself since I was about 7 or 8, so I never felt those posts were talking to me directly, BUT they still annoyed me. They especially annoyed me when the person posting it was a man. My first thought was always, "but do you know how to cook?" In recent years, many women have clapped back, saying things like "why are you depending on a woman to feed you?" or "real men cook too" or "don't go into a relationship looking for your mate to be your momma." And we've even seen plenty of men clapping back in the same vein that "men should know how to cook too," or "grown men know how to feed themselves," etc.